Reading progress update: I've read 60%.

“I wonder,” he went on, “whether you can understand if I try to tell you something? Sometimes you’re so capable and independent that you alarm me. And sometimes I wonder if I’ve married a child instead of a grown woman.”
Mmmkay.
I don't like this guy at all.
So, the question is: am I supposed to not like him because Whitney is fooling me or am I supposed to not like him because he is a murderous creep?